Back ups

so yesterday my lover asked me if i believed in backups. I said yes, which was probably not the best answer but the truth none the less.
Here is what I think, I want to get married no matter what and if I cant find Mr. Right then I plan on marrying one of my friends or someone I am really close to. I am lucky that the person I am with is the person I would ultimately marry coz he is the person I am most comfortable with.
I tried to explain to him that one's having a backup does not necessarily reflect badly on on's lover. So he said that implies not having faith, and I must admit he's onto something there but that is the nature of relationships, how mush faith one has does not usually make the relationship las any longer than it would have.
There is this movie I watched where a man and a woman made a pact that if neither of them were married by 30 then they would jump off a bridge and drown. I consider this extreme, they should have just married each other thus saving two lives.
My lover made a reference to 'Friends', which if you have seen, also condoned this in the episode where Phoebe has a back up and a back up to her back up. I am not saying that because a tv show condones it is right, I am just trying to prove a point since tv is an imitaion of life.
Now I know you all have your own opinions so feel free to post a comment. I want to know what u think. Ciao

Ray

I watched Ray on thursday. I rather liked it except it was a bit on the long side. I got home at 11pm yet I had told my mom I was going to get home at 9.30pm. Anyway back to Ray, you have probably heard everyone raving about Jamie Fox's performance, but I have to say he outdid himself. I really did not have hope in him but he disproved me when I watched the movie. Another actor who did really well was the boy acting as the young Ray, he was really good.
I also watched The Incredibles, finally. It had the best animation or graphics I had seen in a really long time and it had a very nice and involving plot. If you haven't seen it, rent it and see it.
O.k enough with my wannabe criticism. Other than watching movies this whole weekend, I can't say I have done anything interesting. If something comes up, I will keep you posted. Ciao.

I KNOW

Ok, hate on me. I dont mind. OK I know its my fault. I was just talking to Raymond and he said I blog annually which is right. I have blogged only twice probably in two different years. I will try to blog monthly starting today. So I started working with my Godfather again and that is why I can now blog regularly.
Now I dont know what to say, there is nothing new happening in my life or atleast nothing worth talking about.
Raymonds blog makes mine look like the doodlings of a 2 year old. He has so much to say and I who hasn't blogged in forever still can't fill a page.
I have an idea I will do something I love and alk about movies. I am going to watch Ray tonigh and see what all the raving is about, you know, with Jamie Fox and all. I cant wait for the Oscars. I am going to watch them live and they will be on Monday at 4 am. I have to work on Monday so I guess I will be asleep on the computer. I will fill you all in on how it goes.
Ok, I think thats enough for now. I might strain myself doing so much after such a long time.
Ciao.

this friggin rain

anyway so its another mundane tuesday and i am here in my uncle's office trapped by the friggin' rain. it has been raining since eleven. it let up at one letting me come for my lecture but now i am trapped here.

anyway its not all bad news i handed in my course work mind you it was late. almost a week late infact but my lecturer is a doll so he let me hand it in.

other than that there is nothing new in my life. as i keep saying i am waiting for Carlo to come back. i thought she was coming back on friday but i just talked to her mother and she says she is coming back on wednesday. honestly at this rate it looks like she is spending her holiday over there. if she comes back i will let y'all know.

ok i am even boring myself so i will bid all the goodbye and a day well spent. till next time.

Feed me, Love me, Never Leave me.: Again

Feed me, Love me, Never Leave me.: Again

I realise i have been so lost and all my fans are wondering whats up but those who know know i am not avery faithful writer. Infact to prove it I have a journal, not so big by the way, but I have had it two years and i still havent filled it. Now thats not to say that my life is not very interesting but I am a lazy writer. so those of you out there who are planning to be faithful readers of this blog I do pity you but i thank you all the same.

Now enough of my apologizing, lets get on with my life. I said before that Carlo was coming back then, well she didnt but she will come either today or tomorrow so i still cant wait to see her. (if any of you are like punctuation mark freaks i am afraid i cant keep it up!)

so every one wants to give props so i will too (i am a follower seldom a leader, evidence of this later on in this session) so i want to thank this computer otherwise i would not be writing this. also i would like to thank my boyfriend of two years who is here with me now, thankyou Jason Sabiiti Ntaro, I love you.
The rest of you not enuf time to thank you all. except ofcourse fo my mum, the rest of my family, aino, kaza, faith, miti, lidu, zam, fio, swidi, nema, carlo and all my other guy friends raymond, ivan(soki), paul and others who i dont feel inclined to mention.

now i realise that if u dont know who i am talking about you are bored but i am sorry the props had to be given. since nothing much is happening i will write another time and break down the reason why i am a follower not a leader, instances when this was proven (such as starting this blog) and i will tell you about this great surprise birthday party i went to on saturday.

ciao till the next week passes. love me, feed me, never leave me. (loved that line from garfield)

Rookie

Hey everyone. i am so excited i mean i can share every detail of my life with all of you and not have to see the look of boredom on you faces or the yawn you are trying to stifle in an effort to be polite. There is a positive side for u as well, you can simply switch me off anytime you feel like. so its a win win situation.
With that said nothing much is happening except this, i.e me writing in my all new blog. like i said i am so excited. ok i am beginning to sound like a broken record.

One of my best friends Carlo is coming back today. by the way she has her own very interesting blogs that inspired me to start this one so read them at www.carlomania.blogspot.com and www.carlorandomthoughts.blog.com.

all for now, more when my life gets interesting.